Monter's day is a good time for us to express our loves to mom. It is also I good time for the moms to rethink how much they had sacrified for the children… if they had done so. Some of the moms are just too busy on something else.

Value of a child is defined by his parents and grandparents. Without a parent or grandparent, they worth nothing.

It is not easy to be a good father. Most of the time we do not know how to be a good father; the other times, we think we are good, but we actually not. We do not know the favorite of the children and we do not understand the needs of the children and even our wife. The other big big problem that we are facing is that we do not have a promising job on hand. We do not know when will be kicked out from the current position. There is no direction in our future. We just don't know how to point the way forward to the children.

We went to the beach with the children last weekend. Since not much people were there, we let them play freely. The elder one was picking up shells at the sea shore while the smaller one was playing with the grandpa. I could feel the independency of the elder one. One day, he would be the leader of the family and I will follow him. That's life. 

Tonight I got a chance to view a lecture led by a China lecturer and it was about the Chinese Empire and Kings. I was attracted by the knowledgable lecturer. The quality of the class being delivered was high quality in general. Not hard to understand why China is getting stronger.

Have you ever heard of the story about a mom was drawn as devil by her child after n years of exhausted push to her child in primary school? It is real, I think. I had a similar experience this afternoon. After pushing my child to finish up his maths exercise, I was rewarded with an interesting picture - a knife pointing to a daddy. May be I had pushed him too much, but I have no choice. Just dont want him always stay as the last few members in the class.

Still remember the time when he learnt to ride on his bicycle alone without any help from the train wheels - from his face, you knew he was enjoying the freedom and satisfaction from inside. What was in my mind was a picture on his own - riding on his own decision and doing whatever he wants to. Would he still thinking of us at that time?