When you put your first step into the church, you are spirtually more mature than the time when you were still a outsider. On your first step to leave church, you are much more mature than the time when you got into it. After that, if you get back to the church again after the long quit, you start understand what you have been doing. If you doesn’t, you never will.

Sometimes, its really time consuming to go through blogs which are not interesting to me. Would be nice if this blog web site can group blogs by age group of publisher. 

If it is easier to live as a peasant, why bother to live as a gentleman. We have put too much energy to gain the apprause of the others. Life is too difficult to live that way.

I think I have to understand my wife. That is a big way to impove myself.

Pain is real but sad is not. Sad is only a psychological reflection of what you are thinking in your brian. You can't control the feeling of pain; If you got hurt physically, you feel pain. However, you can control the feeling of sad. If you can appreciate yourself, appreciate what you have already had, you won't feel sad anymore. To be a Mr. Cheerful is always better than Mr. Sad. Pain is acceptable but sad is stupid. Don't be stupid. 

I think there are some problems with our attitude towards those who are
willing to face change or challenge. They always get discouraged before
success. People have to  face many times of  failure before
success. If a person has the courage to leave the stable environment
and move to a more challenging area, they should be admired and
supported - not depending on their successfulness. No one get success
on the first trial. Keep going friend, I will support you.

Having a kiss from my child is the warmest feeling I have even had in
life. Not only physically content, but also mentally delighted. It
reflects to the rating of our relationship. It fires up my mind and
nerves.